Sunday, May 21, 2006

So Long…Farewell…


We are after all visitors in each other’s life for just that brief moment and the time shared is what you make of it. Its time for me to leave for sea and I just thought I’d type this one last post before I leave, this is not me saying "Good-bye", its me saying "See you soon", coz I have never believed in good bye’s.

Leaving someone behind is not the easiest thing to do, I have been doing it for the past 10 years now and I still haven’t got used to the fact that it hurts, leaving family, friends, loved ones. Its just not something we get used to, yes after a while we get so immersed in our work that we forget all the initial pain of letting go, but then again occasionally the memories crop up again and we start missing everyone back home.

I am living my dream in every way, I am working as a marine engineer which was an ambition, so my job is not really work it’s another passion of mine. Working hard, traveling round the world, meeting new people, watching beautiful sunsets, the drawbacks well being away from loved ones then again I love the missing feeling too, but yeah if I would have it my way ill take them along someday :)

The shortage of love in the world is what inspired me to start writing.
You wonderful people who have been reading my heartfelt thoughts from time to time this is a personal thank you for all your wonderful views and encouraging comments. I have come across some beautiful thoughts myself ,in your blog’s. Everyone of you have a unique talent that you can call your own and that is exactly what makes people come back and read more of what you have to say. So keep voicing out your thoughts :)


Life is all about waking up each day, to discover something new,
About meeting old people, but making new conversations,
Walking through old roads, but still feeling nice about it,
Realizing that you have grown a day older, but still feeling young at heart,
Meeting busy schedules, but still finding time for old friends,
Being nostalgic about bygone days, but looking forward to better days,
Hoping that I could stay a day longer, yet managing to let go.

49 Comments:

Blogger curious said...

wow! that was beautiful!
"The shortage of love in the world is what inspired me to start writing"...so true...on the other hand, being a woman " I had so much Love to offer yet no takers, because of which i started writing".
yes its been quite long...i have so much to write that i dont know where to begin...thanks to you and other blogger friends who missed me so much...will surely start writing again.
I know ur long love" the sea" is awaiting u...I am sure u will have a wonderful time and i cant wait till u come back and share ur experiences with us.
see you soon..and God bless u .i am sure Tipsy will miss u the most!

12:08 am  
Blogger Trailady said...

Best wishes to you, Raj as you leave for the sea. Also congratulations on being able to do what you love- many people fail to pursue their dreams and have many regrets later in life. This will not be true for you.

God Bless & Keep You. :o)

3:00 am  
Blogger AJ ! Serendipity !!! said...

You will be all right buddy.
Go and fly like a free bird. Go fly across the vast oceans. Go visit new lands.Go and cherish the golden sunset and the sultry winds.
Au Reviour ( We depart , but only, to meet very soon)

9:23 am  
Blogger Keshi said...

aww what a BEAUTIDUL post! yet sad :*( I hope u come back soon...


**We are after all visitors in each other’s life for just that brief moment and the time shared is what you make of it.

Spot on! And so many ppl dun realise that and make it so hard for their loved-ones :*(

Adios my friend and see u soon!
Hugggggggggz!

Keshi.

10:06 am  
Blogger Raj said...

@ curious ~ You were the first person to leave a comment on my blog,doubt i could ever forget you :) Tc & Hv fun teaching :)

@ traillady ~ God Bless you too :)

@ Ajay ~ Merci Monsieur :)

@ Keshi ~ You really are an awesome friend:) (((hugz)))

10:17 am  
Blogger Cinderella said...

True,life isnt about goodbyes...its about 'see you soon'.
Like Maximus says to Juba in Gladiator,"we shall meet sooner rather later.So goodbyes?Not yet,not yet."
Nice post.Thnx 4 dropping by.
Bon Voyage and take care.

11:58 am  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

awwww...choo chweet...
do you know how lucky you are??
your job is your passion like you say.. but there are so many people in this world who don't know what they're passionate about...
i guess coming back for a vacation always makes life soo much sweeter..
kudos to your thoughts... this was really a very warm n fuzzy post..

12:00 pm  
Blogger Raj said...

@ cinderella ~ absolutely :)will be back sooner than later :)

@ cold coffee ~ Life is worth living only if you spend every minute being passionate about anything you do :)

12:24 pm  
Blogger tanvi said...

So true! wat you say of life. I am glad you are living your dream.And ya in life all that matters is love...
I have just found you and you are already leaving me but......
Take care for the journey ahead...
Adieu cher ami

12:33 pm  
Blogger Strictly for my friends said...

That was really something! Have a good trip.

5:36 pm  
Blogger Raj said...

@ tanvi ~ Well you found me,so that goes from being complete strangers to friends right :)

@ opinionatedinjerzee ~ Thank you :) all my posts are penned from the heart :)

@ strictly for my friends ~ You have a nice day too :)

5:51 pm  
Blogger Himavan said...

Hey Raj! Nice post. Sad to hear you will not be around for some time. But will wait for your return and to read your beautiful heartfelt thoughts....=)

The last paragraph is lovely written...you couldnt have said better about life.

For sure we miss you here my friend. Take care and Have a good Journey....=)

8:19 pm  
Blogger hope and love said...

beautiful post..! great blog..!
and u r leaving..?
:(
why dint you visit my blog earlier..?

8:21 pm  
Blogger Id it is said...

Visitors we may be, but we do make a difference in anothers life, no matter how small, and I think that is what this life is all about. These brief interludes that when woven together makes for a blanket of memories that at times makes us laugh and then at times brings a tear or two.
"Not farewell, but fare forward."
T.S. Eliot

2:44 am  
Blogger Vidya said...

This is such a cool post ( Actually it gives a warm fuzzy feeling ! ) But I counter such emotional feelings using jokes ( sometimes extremely bad ones that you would rather have me cry instead of say that joke one more time ! )

Good luck and Bon Voyage !!
Vidya

5:47 am  
Blogger Menagerie said...

Hey Raj, that was wonderful!

Wishing you a great voyage..lots of wonderful meetings, discovering new places and a never ending thirst for seeking out more in your journey of life..

And soon, our paths will cross again :)

6:00 am  
Blogger Raj said...

@ contended ~ It will be good to be back :)

@ hope&love ~ Sorry came by your blog a lil late,but better late than never right :)

@ id it is ~ Lovely words :)Thank you!

@ vidya ~ :)

@ menagerie ~ yes and soon our paths shall cross again :)

11:02 am  
Blogger SCRIBBLEZ TO WAKEUP said...

It is very nice of you say tht you will see you soon and this is not a finite good-bye...I love the hope that lingers on! You have written this very beautifully and yes, makes me realise that there is still "love" around. All the best! :)

6:13 pm  
Blogger curious said...

hey i am back!:)

7:22 pm  
Blogger Casablanca said...

Wish the font was bigger... kinda difficult to read, you know ;)

4:17 pm  
Blogger ESIH said...

Navy and being in the sea was my dream..always..never got to full fill it..but here is all the good luck for you..

12:26 am  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

your words remind me of this song.. it goes like this..

"pyaar bina jeena nahi jeena..
mujh se bichad na kabhi na...
tu hein sur mein hoon teri veena..
tujhse bechadke nahi jeena..."

passion rulz.. ehehe...
i wouldn't call it luck if the person has me... i'd just say they're stuck .. :D

2:01 am  
Blogger starry said...

Raj..sad to see you go even though I met u not so long ago. I am glad you have found what you are looking for and enjoy your wok, sometimes we go through a lifetime not knowing this. best of everything.

2:48 am  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

vrey touhing and truly heartfelt....

Bon Voyage

and see you soon!!

good luck!

7:03 am  
Blogger Prash said...

The shortage of love in the world...---kind of true---...

Bon voyage ! ! !

Ciao bambino !

7:42 am  
Blogger Raj said...

@ scribblez ~ Love is always around :)

@ Casablanca ~ Sorry about that :)

@ sushmita ~ Next time chase your dream :)

@ cold coffee ~ :) Thodi si paagal bhi ho meri arien yaar :)

@ starry nights ~ i am sure you'll help ur daughter find her dream :)

@ Chandini ~ Cya soon :)

@ Prash ~ Rock on Dude :)

11:11 am  
Blogger Divster said...

wow.. impressive. I wish u all the luck! :)

11:43 am  
Blogger ishipishi said...

ohh...did i get here too late? have u left already??

d post is beautiful...and even though i don't know what it would really feel like to be away from my loved ones...d way u are when u are away, reading this post had me experiencing feelings that u feel...

i hate good bye's and m glad u made it clear that this is "see you soon"...

i luv d way u see the positive even in a sad situation and then move on right ahead...

hmmmmm...:)...hope u do get back soon and till then...be safe and tk care:)

9:46 pm  
Blogger Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

after so long .. am blog hopping .... and the first 2 blogs i visit ... i see ppl leaving !!!

i dont kno wht to say ... even though i hvnt been here tht often ... but it was nice readin u ...

take care ... and well besta luck! :)

1:30 am  
Blogger Enigma said...

well siad

9:28 pm  
Blogger Kirthi said...

Wow!! A marine Engineer! Isn't that a really awesome job??? Of course it has its occupational hazards so to speak, staying away from home being one of them! Good luck!

7:04 pm  
Blogger Lil Mizfit said...

i'm late to comment but it's better than never, right?

there's a price to pay for every dream, n'est pas? i guess the best part about leaving people u love, behind u, is that this way u tend to remeber their good point and they, urs...

wish u a bon voyage!

2:52 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

its beautiful!
u almost made me cry it was so beautiful.
i feel jealous too thinking all th beautiful sunsets u'll see out there in the sea.
come back soon, with all ur friends and everyone i too will be waiting to hear from u...

3:45 pm  
Blogger Scoot said...

wow,sad that you won't be there but wish you all the best until we see you again.good luck and my best wishes to the sea.

4:07 am  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

kyon pagal?

2:06 am  
Blogger Wanderer said...

Have I missed you? Are you gone already?...
Nice post!:) Bon Voyage and have a good and safe trip!Enjoy the explorations till the seas bring you back on shore, where we will be waiting in bloggerland for your next post...
cheers!

12:40 am  
Blogger Rose said...

"We are after all visitors in each other’s life for just that brief moment "...

Sweet memories are one way one can live in another's life almost forever.. We'l never forget u dear.. U go on and dp what u hv to do..

But come bck soon.. :(((

..Me

4:38 pm  
Blogger Priyankari said...

it's so true. pursuing our dreams make us sacrifice many things we love. i just wish everything could be got together.
no goodbyes from me. come back soon waiting to see u write again:)

6:07 pm  
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Anonymous Anonymous said...

hey... after readin wat u have written.. have to replace ma fav word to one which u had told me bout.. it was AMAZING.. i loved everythin bout it.. i cant certainly write like that but all i can say now is.. all the best in wateva u do.. blv in urself n u will do wonders.. KEP SMILING N SEE YOU LATER

1:22 am  
Blogger Ekta said...

awwww...I can imagine how difficult it must be..gosh!...and to do it over and over again..can be painful!
All I can say is hopefully someday u will stop sailing and be with ur loved ones and then u wont have to leave them again!

11:43 am  
Blogger Nithya said...

Hmmm...intense thoughts!!

You havent written for ages. This is dated 2006.....What happened Sailor?

2:24 pm  
Anonymous Darshu said...

See you soon...coz I have never believed in goodbyes ! Such authentic thoughts ! Please keep writing :)

12:07 pm  
Blogger Unknown said...

Beautiful piece, almost made my cry. I am glad that you are always around your loved ones now! :)

9:49 am  

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