Thursday, April 27, 2006

Guilty as charged:)



The Main accused in this case is really cute,tanned,four legged,a forever wagging tail and is downright adorable.Goes by the name of TIPSY :)

Fishes have aquarium's,I'm sure they hate to live in,cat's loiter everywhere,cause apparently they are free spirits,Bird's hate cages,as they love to fly, but Dogs,they don't like living in kennels,they deserve homes,any kind,they don't very much care on the living conditions,they just want to be there,when you get back from work or go along with you for a family vacation,why Cause a dog is family :)

I have had a dog ever since I was 2 years old a golden retriever/lab cross and gosh was she a beauty.In our younger days,We spent most of our days just playing in the mud,getting yelled at,playing fetch,watching TV and even took our daily beauty naps around the same time.Ofcourse we had our flaws while I ate sand once in a while,she tore up the newspaper or when I tried to catch some crawly thing she bit off someone's slippers,Cant Blame us,we believed then as we do now,that no one is perfect :)

There was no separating us,we even had common dislikes,for a bath,for not so yummy food with vegetables and yeah those meanie beenies who threw stones into the house,hated getting those vaccinations,grrrr.We did everything together,Saved the world a couple of times as We fought off the invading aliens and even played cop but knowing tipsy to be her, she would just wag and invite the bad guys home for tea.Its not her fault she was just so friendly and loving.She loved my friends and never ever let us out of her sight,she hated missing out on all the fun.

At times I wondered whether she really was my age or older cause there have been many instances when I had just started walking and I wanted to head out the main gate and she just woudnt let me,she would either hold on to my baby suit or jump on top of me and trip me over I always thought she was just jealous, because everyone else went out,but her.And she needed me for company sake you know,Good company is hard to find :)

As Year's rolled by,I started going to school and yet there was tipsy always there waiting to greet me at the gate itself, wagging, drooling,jumping,yelping in delight that her best friend had returned after a hard day at school and all she expected in return was a pat or a hug or to hear my voice say down tipsy down,stop jumping :) She would patiently sit and listen to my daily trials and tribulation during a better half of my school years and sometimes would even skip meal times just so that I complete what I had to say.The number of conversations we had about love in general and the bad guys coming to get me were endless.There were so many nights when I would slip from my bed room to come and find her sitting by the gate just looking into the stars,waiting for them to disappear so that morning came and she would get to see me again.And she also used to make sure that there were no law and order problems in the neighbourhood at night,that was her part time job it seemed.Then as my dad would read the paper she would sit by his feet and take a peek at what's happening in the world.She was always well informed that way.

There is this thing about age that you cant defy and that is moving on to a better place,though I did not understand very much of it at 10 years old,I have grown wiser with time.Tipsy moved on when I was eleven and well even the last breath she took,looking into my eyes,making sure I was okie.I cried my heart out and even now I shed a tear in her name every other day.I have always had a dog ever since,its the fourth generation running and I still name my dog tipsy and its still the same lab/retriever,some people find it strange,some understand!

The thought being not to lose the essence of someone beloved,throughout my life,by naming her again and again, I just tend to accumulate memories of a loved one and not feel the suffering of a loss as much,But yes I must admit there are moments,when I recall the other's and I cry and then tipsy comes along and stares at me with those big droopy eyes that say I'm here for you,really what more could one ask for?

Ofcourse times have changed and while I break my head over a book,she likes to chew up mobile phones or when I expect her to go fetch something I throw,she gives me the look that says fetch it yourself :)Gone were the days when I used to take her out for a walk,now I tend to wonder if it was always the other way round,like it was me who needed the excercise. She likes it,getting attention all the time,sending those silent hello's to the people who walk their dog's.We have even made a couple of friends that way.We sure have come a long way,me and tipsy,and we sure have a long way to go,me and tipsy:)

The line "The more people i meet,the more i like my dog" is proof enough that a dog has been a wo-man's best friend since time unknown and shall remain so....We have friends,faithful ones,ones that listen and ones that dont have a tail and for the one's that do,this is my salutation to you!

42 Comments:

Blogger flowinglights said...

i never had a pet and never felt jealous of someone who had..but today i do! felt as if reading a children's story book..refreshing and innocent...

10:51 am  
Blogger Ekta said...

Hey,
Lovely post and thx for dropping by at my blog!
Well personally have never had a pet and hence cant relate to your sentiments for your pet--but Its really lovely to read that uv had someone u cherish so much!

11:29 am  
Blogger Senwired said...

hey raj.. nice post.. i can relate to your sentiments even though i never had a dog.. say hello to tipsy.. :)

12:26 pm  
Blogger AJ ! Serendipity !!! said...

Hey dude
That was touching
You had me in tears. I am an animal lover.I love both doggs n cats. But dad will throw me out of the house if i get one.
Lucky you to have such a wonderful friend.
My mom had a pet cat who wud just understand u, n my cousins have cute doggies. Oh i wish i had a cute tipsy.
They can express so well thru their eyes.
Man this was really beautiful.
Give tipsy a hugz :))

6:14 pm  
Blogger curious said...

OK Buddy..u did ur job...u made me cry, u made me jealous and yes u proved ur point.. sigh me! i cant get a dog coz i keep moving from country to country...and yes, The reason dogs have so many friends is because they wag their tails instead of their tongues.

7:10 pm  
Blogger ishipishi said...

*sigh*...this was a truly beautiful read...:-)...i don't have a dog at home now...atleast not since i got married (hubby dear won't hear of it!)...but back home (dad's) we got a daschund:) and at my bro in law's a lab:) and a golden retreiver:)!! love 'em all!!!!

thanks fr gettin to my space:)..! m so glad u did or else i wld've missed reading this!!:)...do give tipsy a biggg huggg from me:)..

10:33 pm  
Blogger Himavan said...

Hi Raj!

I haven't read someone writing so beautiful about a relationship(even human to human). Actually I am speechless to comment on this one.

Nice most man!! and thanks for dropping my blog. shall pass by..:)

11:29 pm  
Blogger Michelle said...

awww really sweet post!! i hav a dog too so i can fathom...gotten so attatched to my dog...its difficult staying without him even for a day...n ur frm the venice of the east!!! lovely place...allepey :)

12:39 am  
Blogger Scoot said...

Tipsy moved on when I was eleven and well even the last breath she took,looking into my eyes,making sure I was okie..........
tipsy sure was soo special..wish I had a dog like that!!

2:17 am  
Blogger Keshi said...

I always had dogs and cats as my pets when I was little...my dad was an avid dog lover. Now I dun have any pets cos I just dun have the time...some day I'll have the all over again :)

I agree...dogs can be the most faithful beings on Earth, better than wollves in sheep's clothing ;-)

have a good day mate and thanks so much for ur lovely words abt me :)

Keshi.

7:13 am  
Blogger Raj said...

Thank you lovely people,i'm glad you appreciated my thoughts on a loved one :) Tipsy,drooling licks each of ur face saying "have a wonderful day":)

9:04 am  
Blogger pm said...

loved ones are hard to find and harder to forget :)
i ve seen my cousins brooding over their pets when they had died... i never had one

9:22 am  
Blogger Rupa (BNB) said...

he he Yes Typical arians, never wanted some one to miss wishing us.:)

BTW belated wishes to u too..

12:58 pm  
Blogger curious said...

just dropped by to give Tipsy an internet hug...after reading this post, she sure seems to ooze love even in this snap...doesnt she!!:)

...and yes u can take ur sweet time to do the tag...sweet and nice:) have a great weekend!

5:20 pm  
Blogger Stud said...

Beautiful write up, Raj. You sure seem a very romantic and sensitive bloke:)

btw, u gotta name it on my blog:)

11:39 pm  
Blogger SCRIBBLEZ TO WAKEUP said...

Hey....first, hats off for that really stud name- Tipsy. I am in love with it!! I never had a dog but after reading your post, I think I want one...:)

1:35 am  
Blogger Sarah said...

I have a pet finally... A budgie..Liza was rescued from an abandoned apt..Sure birds like to be free and roam the sky..Liza won't survive in the wild..
Nice post..

5:13 am  
Blogger Rupa (BNB) said...

Cutie Post, loved reading about Tipsy & Ur venture in childhood :)

11:25 am  
Blogger che sara sara said...

i never had any pets at home...
anyways nice name "tipsy"
so belong from God's own Country?

4:49 pm  
Blogger Rose said...

Hmmm.. Luvd ur post.. Probably bcoz i feel the same way abt my mickey... She is this adorable daschund whose biggest mystery in life is "why am i ever not able to get hold my tail?" :-)))

Naughty as she is, she is the only thing in life that i can take completely for granted and whom i can count on to luk at me with those gooey-doggie-eyes as if im the most important thing in the world.. :)

Its amazing how the heart bonds the way it does...

..Me

6:42 pm  
Blogger Raj said...

Tipsy says "woof woof" which would otherwise read,"thank-you" in human tounge :)have a nice day!

7:23 am  
Blogger Clueless said...

Hey, Lovely post..

btw, I have pets at my place and I love spending time with them.

Thx for dropping by my blog.
Cheers!

11:19 am  
Blogger Clueless said...

one of my pet's name is Tipsy!! other one is Flocy :D

11:20 am  
Blogger Sonal said...

Hi Raj,
An excellent post...I really c how heartlfelt...I understand how it feels to have ur loving pet near u...I miss my Jack too(a German Sheperd)esp wen ppl like me hav to stay away frm him as he is @ home wid my parents....

But more than the post, i appreciate that lovely human being inside u, who has carved out feelings so beautifully in words...
Keep writing such amazing stuff...

12:22 pm  
Blogger Sam!! said...

Nice n sweet post, i never had a pet but i think now i must have it:) :)

Thnx for stopping by my blog.

Takecare.

2:30 pm  
Blogger Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

Aww ... that was such a sweet post ... i have never had a pet ... though i alwez wanted one .. but my mom was like if u want one you should take the pet's responsiblity ... which was welll hard for me ......

My sister got married .. and they have a pet there ... and i am amazed at the way they both have mingled so well with each other in such a short duration ...

The feelin of havin someone around you alwez ... makes u so happy ... that someone is alwez ears to wht u have to say ... and all he would ask for is a little pat in return ...

Now i know why one of my neighbours alwez bought the same dog and named her silky ...

Great post once again ... got me so emotional ... and my wish to have a pet at home has once again arisen!


Thanks for dropping by my blog ... and leaving those lovely words :)

10:49 pm  
Blogger Łóòň Ġãĺ said...

And I forgot ...



Pats on tipsy's back and whispers woof-woof


(woof-woof ... in human tongue means - rock on!)

10:50 pm  
Blogger Diana Sahu said...

Hi....i always had a pet since my childhood and my pet , lucky just passed away two years back. loved him a lot....therefore can relate to every single word that u have written.
nice post

3:21 pm  
Blogger starry said...

Thanks for visiting my site, Nice post i never had a pet, but I can see how u can get attached to one.

8:40 pm  
Blogger Alapana said...

The first thing which made me put in a comment even with a mad crazy tough schedule of my life is TIPSY:) adorable,she is so cute,its kind of a bond which forms only with them,I hate to call them dogs,they have names as we have,they have a heart which is missing in many of us:)
I have two of my own,Raja,&Sandy,and yes,i loved the line,the more people i meet,the more i like my dog.So true:)
Enjoy and have fun:)
thanks for dropping by my blog.

9:55 pm  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Its such a lovely post....

reminds me of bronzo..my doberman...I never particularly liked dogs before I met her..she came along, life was great...helped me get over my fear of dogs in general...and when she went away...I could never bring myself to get another. There were others at home....but none of them were mine...I just couldnt bear it......
This post reminded me so much of her...coz I grew up with her...I remember how much I cried when her tail was cut...coz she was in pain...

11:36 pm  
Blogger Vidya said...

Hey,
Thanks for dropping by at my blog. I cannot agree with you more about pets. I love dogs more because of their loyalty. One look into the big eyes and you know that the doggie has nothing but unconditional love for you.
It is so rare to find that kind of love !

I am glad you had it and I am sorry that you lost its physical presence.

Vidya

5:53 am  
Blogger The Bhandari's said...

Nice post, and thx for dropping by at my blog. I never had any pet in my life and somehow am afraid of dogs too... I am too scary to go even near them so can't say much but reading here felt u love ur pet so much good. And even it was like if my frds had pets when I have to visit them I used to make it a point to call them before my visit so that they can take their pet in some other room :)
And now don't know
~preeti

10:40 am  
Blogger Raj said...

Thank you wonderful people for being so gracious with your comments,God Bless:)

12:14 pm  
Blogger Unknown said...

Raj, You write beautifully! You love your pet...
You made me so sentimental...
Heartfelt, your blog really is..!

1:37 am  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

you write beautifully.
My pet dog genie was very sick a few months back. I really felt that I had lost her, more than a friend she seems like a sweet, baby sister to me. She is around 9 and had to undergo an operation, I was really worried but thank god she is fine now.perfectly fine.
I can understand ur feelings.
Neither can I imagine my life without my sweet genie looking at me with her innocent eyes.

10:37 am  
Blogger Lil Mizfit said...

ur TIPSY looks like my OSCAR's twin!!! i can relate to love for dogs. ain't they the best?? i love OSCAR to bits and our love is becoming legendary!

11:15 am  
Blogger BlueByrd said...

First time here from Rose's...

Reminded me of my cat Billy.....i raised him like my own son would u believe...for six years he was the undisputed king of the house...he basically owned me lol !!

Sadly we moved to a different place and he wasnt comfortable there and always returned to our old home. I tried rather unsuccessfully to bring him back only to find him gone again....Sadly he died a year later while i was away....hmmmm am gettin emotional now...i better stop....

I know he is still around in spirit...:)

BTW how in the world did u get those shinin hearts up there dude !! Thats the kewlest !!!!

U ROCK !!!

10:56 am  
Anonymous Anonymous said...

Hey Raj...Brilliant post...I recognised myself in there someplace...and the picture too - I remember taking one of Tipsy in the apt at Cbe that looks very similar :)
You know who I am ;)

11:01 pm  
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12:44 am  
Blogger Prax said...

Isn't that a fawn labrador...I'm might y jealous, I can't get dog, till I get my own place to live, which's pretty faraway

Sigh!

1:57 pm  
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2:24 pm  

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